Helping shy singles build the confidence and skills needed to find love
Our dating coaches are available in the San Francisco Bay Area, throughout California, and worldwide.
Once upon a time, singles relied upon family, local communities, and matchmakers to find and nurture love.
Unfortunately, things have changed.
"Modernity" eroded communities, leaving humanity more disconnected than ever. In the process, singles were left to fend for themselves.
They sought out the newest dating apps. They went to more awkward wine & cheese socials than they could stomach.
Sadly, most left feeling lost & alone.
Because Tinder and speed dating aren't enough. They can't replace the structures that humanity developed over thousands of years to help singles meet their match.
Don't get us wrong — we think modern dating tools are necessary and sometimes even effective.
We just disagree with the message that singles must bear their loneliness and somehow stop being single all by themselves.
Our dating coaches for men and women can help you find love (and stop feeling alone in the process)
Dating coaching offers the support you need to create a satisfying love life.
Through weekly private, 50-minute sessions, your coach will help you develop the strategy, skills, and follow-through needed to connect deeply with suitable love interests. They will act as mentor, strategist, cheerleader, and teacher and never hesitate to offer honest feedback.
Coaching is action- and near-term-results-oriented, so expect homework assignments, skill-building through role-plays, honest feedback, and tough love nudges.
(If you're seeking help overcoming the psychological blocks that keep you single, we recommend checking out our dating therapy services.)
After working with hundreds of singles, we found that many struggle with dating because they lack an effective dating strategy, dating skills, or both. As such, we created two coaching tracks: Dating Strategy Coaching and Dating Skills Coaching.
Dating Strategy Coaching with a dating expert can help you find people you actually want to date (and avoid dating burnout!)
Dating strategy coaching can help you develop and implement an enjoyable, practical approach to dating. Your coach will help you design a strategy that allows you to relax and focus on connecting with your love interests.
Dating strategy coaching includes:
Choosing the best place to meet the kinds of singles you're interested in.
Planning activities and locations for first dates and beyond.
Clarifying what a "typical" dating relationship progression looks like.
Understanding best practices for communicating before & after dates.
Systematizing your dating plan allows you to relax and focus on making deep connections.
Developing a self-care plan that enables you to weather rejection and search long enough to meet your match.
Online dating profile, picture, & messaging guidance.
Training on how to meet singles offline and move from hello to first date.
Accountability, support, and troubleshooting help as you implement your dating strategy.
Monitoring the effectiveness of your dating strategy and adjusting as needed.
We recommend at least eight coaching sessions to develop, implement, and hone your dating strategy.
Dating Skills Coaching with a dating expert can help get past first dates to a satisfying long-term relationship
If you're meeting new singles regularly but aren't getting as many yeses as you'd like, we recommend dating skills coaching. Your coach will help you hone your dating skills so that you can build deeper, longer-lasting connections. Largely experiential, your coach will help you improve your:
Conversation skills
Listening skills
Body language
Flirtation skills
Humor and playfulness
Touch
Ability to build an emotional connection
Assertiveness skills
We recommend at least eight sessions of dating skills coaching to learn, practice, and integrate your new skills effectively.
