Honest feedback is priceless. It's also hard to get.
If you struggle to get second dates (or any dates at all!) and don't know why, it's time for an outside perspective.
We don't recommend asking friends. unless you're dying to hear, You're such a catch — just be yourself! for the thousandth time.
So, where to go for honest, actionable feedback sans sugar-coating?
A Mock Date Can Help you uncover your dating blindspots so you can find love
Our mock date service is a specialty add-on service for those engaged in dating coaching or therapy. You must complete at least five coaching sessions to be eligible for this service.
You and one of our expert dating coaches will spend several sessions reviewing dating skills to prepare for your mock date. You’ll then be matched with a different coach for your date.
Your mock date session will start with a 50-minute "date," which will take place by video or in person in the Bay Area. Showcase your best dating self to your coach, who will play the part of your blind date. Talk, flirt, practice asking for a second date -- just about everything you would do on a usual date aside from physical touch.
Afterward, spend another 50 minutes debriefing the date in private, reviewing your dating strengths and weaknesses. Your coach will offer honest feedback using our 16-point dating skill rubric, including an assessment of your:
Body language
Conversation skills
Flirtation
Appearance
Intimacy-building skills
Once you have a clearer picture of what you need to work on, you can continue working with your original coach, who can provide skill-building exercises and role-plays to further support your dating success.
That means you’ll gain dating experience, get a reality-based assessment of your dating strengths and growing edges, and laser-focused coaching.
Ready to get started with a mock date?
Apply for a 30-minute consultation to discuss your dating goals and be matched with your best-fit coach.
